DO YOU REMEMBER WHEN YOU LEFT ME BEHIND?
Feature Film Narrative

Project Type: Feature Film Narrative
Project Status: Pre-Production
Writer and Director: Jessica Barr
Producer: Mitchka Saberi

LOGLINE

On the tenth anniversary of their father's death, two estranged sisters return to Wyoming to scatter his ashes - but when the older sister reconnects with her ex to have a child, the trip fractures into a battle between holding onto the past and choosing a future.

SYNOPSIS


Ten years after their father’s death, Maggie (30) and her younger sister Alice (26) reunite for a trip to Wyoming to scatter his remaining ashes. Intended as a gesture of closure, the trip carries an unspoken secondary agenda for Maggie: reconnecting with her longtime ex, Stephen (30), who works at a nearby lodge.

Stephen’s presence quickly destabilizes the dynamic, and the trip itself begins to drift from its original purpose. As the trio move through landscapes steeped in memory-lakes, trails, and family property-Stephen’s girlfriend Olivia (23) enters the orbit, further shifting the emotional terrain.

Gradually, Maggie’s intentions come into focus: she has been attempting to conceive and asks Stephen to donate sperm, not as a romantic gesture, but as a way of building a family rooted in something known. While she frames the decision as practical and self-directed, the request exposes the lingering entanglements between them and the ways the past continues to shape the present. And Alice and Olivia begin to question whether bringing a child into the world as it is today is a good idea at all.

As the trip unfolds, unresolved grief, blurred boundaries, and long-standing patterns resurface, forcing Maggie, Alice, and Stephen to confront the roles they’ve been playing since their father’s death.

A restrained character study about motherhood, misaligned intimacy, and what endures after loss-not the family that’s gone, but the one still possible.

DIRECTOR’S STATEMENT ABOUT THE PROJECT

Much like Maggie, I have always been drawn to romanticizing my past. My work often returns to grief and the emotional terrain of my youth, an homage to my late mother, but also an attempt to understand how memory can both comfort and trap us. In my own life, I found myself holding onto relationships that became extensions of that grief, people who functioned as touchstones to a version of myself I wasn’t ready to let go of. This film marks a turning point for me—a way of acknowledging that pull while choosing to move forward.

I’m interested in the liminal spaces we inhabit when we are caught between what has been and what could be. The characters in this film exist in that in-between: surrounded by a natural world that often feels suspended in time. There’s a ghostly quality to that feeling, not in a literal sense, but in the way memory lingers in objects, in language, in the spaces we return to.

What follows is an intimate, bittersweet story about unconventional motherhood, asexuality, family grief, and the complicated process of release. I’m drawn to stories where very little “happens” on the surface, but everything is shifting underneath—where silence, duration, and environment carry as much weight as dialogue.

At its core, this is a film about learning how to live in the present. It’s for anyone who feels stuck—caught in the gravity of the past or projecting into an imagined future—and needs the reminder that life is happening now. The ending doesn’t offer neat resolution, but rather the suggestion of repair: that even frayed bonds can begin to mend, and that moving forward doesn’t require letting go entirely, but learning how to carry the past differently.

Meet The Filmmakers

  • Mitchka Saberi

    Producer

    Mitchka Saberi is a Producer at the LA-based production company Echobend Pictures, where she has worked on commercials for brands such as Dr. Squatch and Scrub Daddy, as well as music videos for artists such as Bon Iver, SZA, The Black Keys and Becky G. The narrative short she produced, SHE RAISED ME, premiered at Aspen Shortsfest in 2025 and went on to play at Palm Springs Shortfest, Newfest, and more. She also recently produced Blush (premiered at 2026 Aspen Shortsfest) and executive produced I THINK ABOUT KILLING YOU (official selection at 2026 Tribeca Film Festival), which are both on the festival circuit. 

  • Jessica Barr

    Director / Writer

    Jessica Barr's work often explores loss and coming of age. She's known for stirring and cerebral stories - grounded in naturalism. Sophie Jones, a feature that Barr wrote, produced and starred in premiered at the Deauville Film Festival and was acquired by Oscilloscope Laboratories, earning a rare 100% rating on Rotten Tomatoes. 

    ​Her psychological-thriller Tight had its world premiere at SXSW in 2024, where Harper’s Bazaar named it one of the top ten films to see. It is an official Vimeo Staff Pick. She has been supported by Future Of Film Is Female and is a 2026 Dirty Films x Netflix Proof Of Concept Awardee. She worked as a director's assistant on S2 of The Summer I Turned Pretty.

    Jessica’s directorial feature debut The Plan, a single-take thriller, had its world premiere at the 2026 Slamdance Film Festival. It recently won best feature at the Lower East Side Film Festival.

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DO YOU REMEMBER WHEN YOU LEFT ME BEHIND? is a fiscally sponsored project of Cinematography for Actors, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization.  Your donation will be tax-deductible!